Assume that everyone’s been through everything. So that you won’t throw around statements like “What would you know? You’ve never had kids.”, or “Only suckers stay in abusive relationships.”
You can, absolutely, determine someone’s virtue from the shade of their urine.
Before you overreact, please, bear in mind, when dealing with pornography, subscription and addiction are two different things.
When a guy says “I’m not good enough for you,” it’s a statement of fact. Not a challenge.
That is all.